5 places for book lovers – Den Haag

I have been living in The Hague since the summer of 2016 and I can honestly say that I really love the city. There is so much to discover: museums of all kinds, the beach right around the corner and wonderful unique shops and places. The Hague has a lot to offer for book lovers and I want to show you my top five places for book lovers in this post.

Collage mit Buchläden und Highlights aus Den Haag
Buchliebhaber-Guide Den Haag

1. Stanley and Livingstone – book shop

This book shop sells every book possible when it comes to travelling – hiking guides, general travel guides, travel experience-books, but also maps and globes. The owners, husband and wife, have been running this gem for over 25 years now and are going to hand the shop over soon – to do more travelling. Who can blame them?
What is special about this book shop is the way they wrap your purchase: brown paper, a post stamp from any country around the world (when I bought our hiking guide the other day I got a stamp from Chad!) and a lovely stamp that makes the package look like mail. I absolutely love this eye for detail. If you visit, also look up at the ceiling to discover even more beauty.

Stanley and Livingstone, Schoolstraat 21, 2511 AW Den Haag
Opening times are:
Tuesday, Wednesday + Friday: 10.00 – 18.00
Thursday: 10.00 – 21.00
Saturday: 10.00 – 17.00
Sunday: 13.00 – 17.00
https://www.stanley-livingstone.eu/

2. Bookstor – book shop and cafe

This book shop combines everything I love about life: books, cakes, hot drinks, dinner-events and music. Situated in Noordeinde, Bookstor is a popular meeting place for readers and coffee lovers. When you walk in, it feels like you entered someone’s living room. Couches and chairs are spread around the whole shop and you can easily forget time while drinking delicious fresh apple juice and read either a newly bought book or one you brought from home.
Books and delicious pastry is not all Bookstor offers: every once in a while, they also offer special dinner-events, where two women are cooking for the guests. The food is always around a different country.

Bookstor, Noordeinde 39,2514GC Den Haag
Opening times: Monday – Saturday: 08.00 – 19.00
https://www.bookstor.nl/

3. American Book Center – book shop

This book shop really offers something for everyone – books on every topic possible, postcards, board games, little gifts for book lovers. The perfect shop. This is why I also buy most of my books here. I love browsing the shop and discovering books I have never heard about and getting advise from the very helpful and knowledgeable staff. The ABC has a second shop in Amsterdam and is hosting many great events, such as the feminist book club, writing courses and book launch-parties.

ABC The Hague, Lange Poten 23, 2511 CM Den Haag
Opening times are:
Monday: 11:00 – 19.00
Tuesday + Wednesday: 10.00 – 19.00
Thursday: 10.00 – 21.00
Friday + Saturday: 10.00 – 19.00
Sunday: 11.00 – 18.00
https://abc.nl/

4. Literatuurmuseum

The museum shows portraits of 500 famous Dutch writers. The portraits show a great diversity which represents the Dutch literature-world in a great way. I personally love looking at portraits and discovering new writers. Honestly, I barely know Dutch authors so visiting the museum gave me a very good impression of what there is to discover and I have some names on my to-read-list, now.
In the same building, you can also find a children’s book museum which I have not visited yet, but I heard great things about it. The museums here in the Netherlands are in generall very interactive and I heard the staff member explain different events, such as workshops, to other visitors.

Literatuurmuseum, Prins Willem-Alexanderhof 5, 2595 BE Den Haag
Opening times are:
Monday – Sunday: 10.30 – 17.00
https://literatuurmuseum.nl

5. Museum Meermanno – oldest book museum in the world

Situated right next to the Malieveld, this museum offers not only temporary exhibitions but also a miniature book library “Bibliotheca Thurkowiana Minor” created by Guus Thurkow. This collection shows 1515 miniature books. The library includes books about history and nature but also whole novels, such as Don Quixote who inspired Guus Thurkow and whose statue is part of the miniature library. You can watch a video about the library here (Dutch only).
The museum also offers insights into printing and you can print your own bookmark on an old printing press in the open printing atelier. Isn’t that amazing?

Museum Meermanno, Prinsessegracht 30, 2514 AP Den Haag
Opening times are:
Tuesday – Sunday: 11.00 – 17.00
https://www.meermanno.nl


I hope you enjoyed this trip to The Hague. Next month, we are going to explore another beautiful city in the Netherlands.

Starting my own business

For years, it has been my dream to produce something in a creative way. I dreamed of being able to paint the most beautiful illustrations and knitting the most amazing jumpers – only to realise that I don’t have a lot of talent for either. For years, I have been feeling bad about myself, not trying to change anything about my drawing or knitting skills. My own limiting thoughts were holding me back, There are so many who already do it. They are sooo good. No one would ever like what you do anyway – so don’t even bother. In the last months of 2018, I somehow felt that I really had to give it a try, that I don’t want to be old and realise that maybe I should have just worked a little bit harder (or at all) for my dream.

An idea is born

And that is what I have been doing since January. I thought of products I would like to create and eventually, hopefully, maybe, but mostly hopefully, sell this year. It is no secret that I love books and authors, so it was clear very early on that I wanted to combine my love for books/authors with my love for crafting, especially embroidery and cross-stitch. Eventually, I had an idea.

Letterboard mit Autorennamen als Inspiration für Stickmotive
Anne’s Letterboard mit Literatur-Ikonen: Kafka, Woolf, Mann

My literature-portraits

I love embroidery portraits but most of the ones I see are very detailed. At this moment, I don’t know yet if I am able to create beautiful realistic portraits. My portraits are therefore very minimalist, but I really like the way they have turned out so far. Photographs of the authors inspired me and I wanted to add my own touch to it by adding a dash of red to almost every portrait.

Minimalistisches Stickportrait von Virginia Woolf mit rotem Detail
Stickportrait Virginia Woolf – mit Anne’s charakteristischem roten Akzent

The first three portraits are showing some of my favourite authors: Virginia Woolf, Thomas Mann and Franz Kafka.

All three authors have a very special place in my heart and life. My German teacher introduced me to Franz Kafka, my father is a huge fan of Thomas Mann and I did an internship at the Heinrich-and-Thomas-Mann-Museum in Lübeck years ago. Virginia Woolf has been one of the first person whose diary I ever read and she was such a delicate, yet strong person.

My goals for 2019 – business

In my post about my goals for 2019, I already mentioned that I want to craft on a regular basis. For this year, my goals for my crafting-business are:

  • Design 30 portraits of famous authors feminists and embroider them
  • Open my own etsy-shop (goal: Open the shop by the end of March)
  • Sell one handmade-item
  • Design my own enamel-pin
  • Produce my own enamel-pin
  • Design one linocut print that I am happy with
  • Make linocut cards
  • Design cross-stitch-pattern of my pin-design
  • Design a feminist calendar 2020
  • Design a literature calendar 2020
  • Design two tote bags
  • Participate in the Swan-Market in The Hague in September

A lot of ideas and I am very excited to continue working on the projects I have already started and to start with the other ones.

Steps taken so far

I have reduced my working hours from 32 to 24 hours per week to have two days off per week to focus on my creative adventures. In January, I have designed my very first enamel-pin and it is currently being produced. If all goes well, I will receive it in around three weeks. Every year, I visit the Swan Market in The Hague, a handmade-business market in the open air. This year, I am going to participate myself: I made a reservation for a stall in September.

I am very excited, also to mention it here in public and to people that know me in real life, but I think the more people know about it, the better.

Do you like to craft? If yes, what do you like to do most?

Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker – An ode to sleep

How many hours per night do you sleep? Do you wake up relaxed and full of energy? Or are you tired and looking for coffee to get you going? I usually sleep at least eight hours every night and wake up relaxed in the morning, but did you know that two-thirds of adults throughout developed nations fail to get the recommended eight hours of sleep per night? The effect of just one night of deficit reaches far into our everyday life: From eating more to being irritated. In his book Why We Sleep, Matthew Walker explains the complex work that our brain does – especially while we are sleeping.

Book cover Matthew Walker Why We Sleep. Golden doorknob

Sleep and Caffeine

While our twenty-four hours circadian rhythm is one factor that dictates our time awake or asleep, sleep-pressure is the second. While we are awake, the chemical adenosine is rising in our brains. The more adenosine we have in our brain, the more our sleeping pressure increases and we want to sleep. Many of us turn to coffee to kick off the day and to get energized. Now, caffeine blocks the receptors that signal sleepiness to our brain. Caffeine makes you feel awake and alert, while your brain is actually getting the signals to go to bed. However, adenosine is still being produced without your brain noticing it. Once the caffeine wears off, many experience a “caffeine crash”. Our brain gets hit by all the adenosine signalling “I am tired” to the brain. The “problem” with adenosine is, that it gets reduced only by sleeping. So if you don’t sleep enough, you wake up with adenosine still making you tired, even after a night of sleep.

The perks of sleeping enough

The number of people who can survive on five hours of sleep or less without any impairment, expressed as a percent of the population, and rounded to a whole number, is zero.

Dr. Thomas Roth

Not only does enough sleep help your brain to get rid off adenosine. Sleep also helps your studying, to foster recently learned things and to prevent serious accidents. According to Walker, “more than 2 million people in the US fall asleep while driving their motor vehicle in one week”. Drowsy driving leads to about 1.2 million accidents per year, in the USA alone. Our brain needs to recover to function perfectly. The recycle rate of our brain is around sixteen hours, after this time, our brain starts to fail. Walker points out that waking up at seven in the morning, staying up all day and hanging out with friends until the night, by 2 o’clock at night, your brain is in the same state as the brain of a legally drunk driver – without you having touched alcohol at all.

Step up your game with sleep

Enough sleep does not only help you stay awake while driving and not kill someone else or get killed yourself, but it also helps you improve skills such as piano playing. Matthew Walker explains that the best thing to do after practising or learning something new is to sleep. “If you don’t sleep the very first night after learning, you lose the chance to consolidate those memories, even if you get lots of “catch-up” sleep thereafter.” It does not only apply to learning for your history exam or practising a new piano routine. Tests have also shown how sleeping helps professional athletes who get enough and deep, good sleep perform much better than athletes who did not rest enough.

How to get enough sleep

For me, a good evening routine is important to get a good night of sleep. Here is what works for me:

  • No laptop during the last hour before sleeping.
  • No mobile phone in the bedroom.
  • Going to bed at the same time. I usually fall asleep between 9.30 and 10.00 every night, also on the weekend.
  • Getting up at the same time.
  • Relaxing before I go to bed. This means no appointments scheduled too late, not reading or watching something late that might lead to over-thinking or call-to-action thoughts.
  • Turning down the heat. I first didn’t want to listen to my boyfriend and always have a warm room, but sleeping with around 18.4 degrees really helps me get better sleep.
  • No naps during the day. When I sleep during the day, I find it difficult to fall asleep at night. Matthew Walker also recommends to not take naps after 3 p.m.
  • Cleaning for 20 minutes and listening to calming music. I rarely do it, to be honest, but when I do, I feel super relaxed and proud.

The book Why We Sleep digs much deeper into why we sleep, why we dream and why sleeping and also dreaming is very important to maintain a healthy way of living. I can only recommend reading the book as it tells you so much more about the power of sleep than just the things I mentioned above.

Do you have an evening routine to help you sleep better?

Matthew Walker, Why We Sleep. The New Science of Sleep and Dreams, ISBN 978-0-141-98376-9, 342 pages. All quotes are from the book.

A holiday for book lovers: Running a bookshop in Scotland

You always dreamed of running a bookshop without the risks and pressure of making a sell? Dream no further: Scotland has you covered. To be more precise – the national book town Wigtown where you can run a bookshop for 1-2 weeks via Airbnb.

The Open Book bookshop in Wigtown, Scotland – available to rent via Airbnb

It all started with a visit to a bookshop in Amsterdam last October where I discovered the book Diary of a Bookseller by Shaun Bythell. In his book, he tells what it is like to run a second-hand bookshop in Wigtown. While he mentions many positive moments, he also gives a rather realistic picture of his profession. He tells us about the challenges about selling books to and buying books from sometimes rather ignorant people. After reading his book, I decided to never buy books from Amazon ever again.

The Open Book – a unique idea

In this book, you also learn how Mr Bythell’s then-girlfriend had the idea for the Open Book. She enjoyed spending time in his bookshop and was sure that more people would like to know what it is like to run a bookshop. An idea was born and years later, the Airbnb is fully booked for years. You can book your very own bookish holiday for a maximum of two weeks. I had heard about this years ago but forgotten about it soon as it was fully booked. After finishing the Diary of a Bookseller, I had another look and couldn’t believe my luck: The first week of January was free. Our adventure of running a bookshop started on the 31st of December 2018.

Settling in at the bookshop

We arrived in Wigtown on December, 31st around noon and were greeted by a wonderful man, George. He showed us the shop and the flat and warned us that it will probably be quiet an. George made sure we would also take some time off. We were in Scotland and on vacation after all! After settling in, we were able to welcome quiet some visitors and customers. We got homemade shortbread, got to know the neighbours and made plans for our stay: we wanted to explore the area, add new books to the inventory, sort some bookshelves and I wanted to create a new chalkboard sign every day.

Part of the experience is also to write a blog about your stay. You can find ours here. We published three blog posts there and they are very detailed. Reading about past experiences made us realise how lucky we really were. We had booked the holiday in October 2018 and stayed with The Open Book at the end of December 2018. The average waiting time is more than 2 years. The owner of the building told us that there is a waiting list of over 700 people.

How to book your bookshop-holiday

I can only recommend this unique experience to everyone: You get to run a bookshop!! And you really feel like the owner. Of course, without the stress, uncertainties and difficulties, but it gives you a small insight into what the life of a bookseller can be. You can book the holiday via Airbnb. One night costs around 50EUR/58USD and the flat is amazing. It has everything you could wish for and is situated right above the shop.

Keep in mind that it is currently fully booked for three years. I can only advise you to randomly check because there are rare openings when someone cancels. You can also put yourself on the waiting list.

Once you get a spot, start getting excited. Gather ideas for your windows displays. Think about events you want to host. The town of Wigtown and its people are wonderful. Everyone really is as friendly and open as written in the reviews and you will feel at home from the moment you walk into the bookshop.

My personal highlight

The highlight of the whole experience was, apart from being surrounded by books all day long, working together with my boyfriend. He is more rational, realistic and down-to-earth while I started looking for property to bring the idea to the Netherlands on the second day. I also realised that working for myself is something I would like to experience at one point in my life. I left Scotland with a great sense of calm and excitement because I realised that 2019 will be my year. The feeling that anything is possible crept up on me while driving through the beautiful landscape. Knowing that something I’ve created made others laugh and even take photos of is something I will hold forever dear.

Would you like to try The Open Book and run a bookshop for a week?

9 novels I want to read in 2019

At the beginning of January, I shared 15 non-fiction books I want to read this year and I thought it would be a good idea to also share a list of fiction books that are on my list. My list is a mixture of recently published books I received for Christmas and books that are at least 5 years old. I like to read books that were published at different times – it makes me understand how literature has changed over the course of the years and which topics and themes once used to be popular and how contemporary literature helps to make a change. So here are nine novels I want to read this year.

1. I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou

Blurb: “Here is a book as joyous and painful, as mysterious and memorable, as childhood itself. I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings captures the longing of lonely children, the brute insult of bigotry, and the wonder of words that can make the world right. Maya Angelou’s debut memoir is a modern American classic beloved worldwide.
Sent by her mother to live with their devout grandmother in a small Southern town, Maya and her brother endure the ache of abandonment and prejudice. At eight years old and back at her mother’s side in St. Louis, Maya is attacked by a man many times her age – and has to live with the consequences for a lifetime. Years later, in San Francisco, Maya learns that love for herself, the kindness for others, her own strong spirit, and the ideas of great authors will allow her to be free instead of imprisoned. Poetic and powerful, I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings will touch hearts and change minds for as long as people read.”
ISBN: 978-0-345-51440-0

2. Howards End by E.M. Forster

Blurb: “On its publication in 1910 Howards End was instantly and widely recognized as a classic. “The word Forsterian is demanded,” wrote one reviewer. Another adjudged its author “likely to be one of our glories”, while a third considered that “if he never writes another line, his niche will be secure”. These forecasts have been amply justified.”
ISBN: 978-0-140-43175-9

3. The Circle by Dave Eggers

Blurb: “The Circle runs everything – all your internet activity in one easy, safe and visible place. No wonder it is now the world’s most powerful and influential company. So when Mae Holland lands a job at its glittering California campus, she knows she’s made it. But the more her ideals and ambitions become aligned with those of the Circle, the closer she comes to discovering a sinister truth at the heart of an organization seeking to remake the world in its image”.
ISBN: 978-0-241-97037-9

4. The Alice Network by Kate Quinn

Blurb: “1947. In the chaotic aftermath of World War II, American college girl Charlie St. Claire is pregnant, unmarried, and on the verge of being thrown out of her very proper family. She’s also nursing a desperate hope that her beloved cousin Rose, who disappeared in Nazi-occupied France during the war, might still be alive. So when Charlie’s parents banish her to Europe to have her “little problem” taken care of, Charlie breaks free and heads to London, determined to find out what happened to the cousin she loves like a sister.
1915. A year into the Great War, Eve Gardiner burns to join the fight against the Germans and unexpectedly gets her chance when she’s recruited to works as a spy. Sent into enemy-occupied France, she’s trained by the mesmerizing Lili, code name Alice, the “queen of spies”, who manages a vast network of secret agents under the enemy’s nose.
Thirty years later, haunted by the betrayal that ultimately tore apart the Alice Network, Eve spends her days drunk and secluded in her crumbling London house. That is until a young American barges in uttering a name Eve hasn’t heard in decades, and launches them both on a mission to find the truth … no matter where it leads.”
ISBN: 978-0-06-265419-9

5. The Devil and Miss Prym by Paulo Coelho

Blurb: “A community devoured by greed, cowardice and fear. A man persecuted by the ghosts of his painful past. A young woman searching for happiness. In one eventful week, each of them will face questions of life, death and power, and each of them will have to choose their own path. Will they choose good or evil?”
ISBN: 0-00-711604-7

6. A Horse Walks into a Bar by David Grossman

Blurb: “In a little dive in a small Israeli city, Dov Greenstein, a comedian a bit past his prime, is doing a night of stand-up. In the audience is a district court justice, Avishai Lazar, whom Dov knew as a boy, along with a few others who remember Dov as an awkward, scrawny kid who walked on his hands to confound the neighbourhood bullies. Gradually, as it teeters between hilarity and hysteria, Dov’s patter becomes a kind of memoir, taking us back onto the terrors of his childhood: we meet his beautiful flower of a mother, a Holocaust survivor in need of a constant monitoring, and his punishing father, a striver who had little understanding for his creative son. Finally, recalling his week at a military camp for youth – where Lazar witnessed what would become the central event of Dov’s childhood – Dov describes the indescribable while Lazar wrestles with his own part in the comedian’s story of loss and survival. Continuing his investigations into how people confront life’s capricious battering, and how art may blossom from it, Grossman delivers a stunning performance in this memorable one-night engagement (jokes in questionable taste included).”
ISBN: 978-1-5247-1137-5

7. Dear Mrs Bird by AJ Pearce

Blurb: “London 1941. Amid the falling bombs Emmeline Lake dreams of becoming a fearless Lady War Correspondent. Unfortunately, Emmy instead finds herself employed as a typist for the formidable Henrietta Bird, the renowned agony aunt at Woman’s Friend magazine. Mrs Bird refuses to read, let alone answer, letters containing any form of Unpleasantness, and definitely not those from the lovelorn, grief-stricken or morally conflicted.
But the thought of these desperate women waiting for an answer at this most desperate of times becomes impossible for Emmy to ignore. She decides she simply must help and secretly starts to write back – after all, what harm could that possibly do?”
ISBN: 978-1-5098-5392-2

8. Billy Budd by Herman Melville

Blurb: “Herman Melville’s short stories, somewhat neglected during his lifetime, today are considered to be among the small masterpieces of American fiction. His imagination is inventive, ironic, and extraordinarily attuned to our times. His settings and themes are various: the limits of artistic creation; the opposition of innocence and evil; fear of isolation; the inviolate sanctity of the human heart; the fearfulness of and fascination with the “enchanted isles”; the ferocity of the white whale; Calvinist hell-fire and damnation.”

ISBN: The edition is from before 1970, when ISBNs were introduced.

9. The Stars’ Tennis Balls by Stephen Fry

Blurb: “For Ned, 1980 seems a blissful year. Handsome, charming, popular and talented, his life is progressing smoothly, effortlessly, happily. And when he meets the lovely Portia Fendeman his personal jigsaw appears complete. But timing is everything in life, and his life is about to change forever.”
ISBN: 978-0-099-47155-4

Which books do you want to read this year? Have you read any of the books from my list?

Books Ive read in January

My year started with a holiday in Scotland where my boyfriend and I ran a book shop for a week and it was the perfect way to welcome this new year: A year full of adventures and goals I have set to myself. One of these goals is to read 52 books – one per week. So far, this is going very well because I read already 7 books in January and that makes me happy. Not because I think it is great to read so much, but because it shows me that I took the time to do something I love so much: reading. It shows me that I have spent less time behind my laptop watching the 354946th documentary on murderers. (I watched many of these nevertheless, but not every day and for hours).

Learning what others are reading makes me happy for two reasons: First, there is someone who reads – which I find amazing just for itself. Seconds, I love lists. I love making lists, I love crossing things off a list, I love getting inspired by other peoples list. And for that reason, I want to share the books I have read in the last month with you.

Books I read in January

1. Little Hands Clapping by Dan Rhodes
Bookcover of Little Hands Clapping: drawing of male face looking like a gravestone

The novel is set in an unnamed town in Germany where a lonely, old and grumpy man is the guard in a very special museum: A suicide museum. The story takes many curious turns and despite the very serious topic, it has many comical and funny moments. It was a great first book for this year and I can really recommend reading it.
You can find a great animation film for the book here.

2. Summertime by J.M. Coetzee
Book cover of

Every since I had a university course on Barbarism, I am a fan of Coetzee’s writing. I didn’t know that Summertime is the last part of three fiction-memoirs about his earlier life. I wrote a short review of the book here. 

3. Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman
Cactus, postcard with bird, the book eleanor oliphant is complete fine, red glasses lying on a wooden floor

I must admit that I am very often a little sceptical when a book is labelled a bestseller and tend to avoid these books. Why? I don’t know really, to be honest. And reading Eleanor Oliphant made me realise that these books are probably bestsellers for a reason. I loved the book, it made me go through all the feelings and I hope there will be many more books by Gail Honeyman to come in the future. You can find my review about the book here.

4. Start with Why by Simon Sinek
Book cover of

My friend Zu and I read this book for our book club. It was the second book I read by Sinek, the other being Leaders Eat Last. I do like that he tells so many stories of companies and leaders who made a change for their employees, however, I find that the two books give very little actual help on how to either find your why or be a better leader. My friend and I had a good discussion about the book and it is always great to talk about books and getting to know your friends and their life better, but for Sinek, I believe he is much better at talking than at writing.

5. Why we Sleep by Matthew Walker
Cover of the book Why we Sleep by Matthew Walker. White cover with golden doorknob

This book is so interesting and I told so many people at my work about it. (Three want to read it!) Matthew Walker gives a very detailed insight into why sleep is so important and what our brain does while we are asleep. I will write a detailed review about it in the next weeks and also include ways to get better sleep. But for now, all I can say is: EVERYONE SHOULD READ THIS BOOK. Oh, and stop drinking coffee 🙂

6. The Year of Living Biblically by A.J.Jacobs
Cover of the book The Year of Living Biblically

I am part of three book clubs and I read the book by A.J.Jacobs also for one of them. Years ago, I read the book already in German (I think) and remembered it to be funny and entertaining. Jacobs tries to live by all biblical rules and takes the reader along on his journey. I had no idea how may rules, and also how many absurd rules, the bible states and definitely found it interesting to learn about them. It is also interesting for me to see how much room for interpretation there is. The book is an easy-read and if you are interested in learning more about the bible without reading the bible – this book is perfect for you.

7. Truth in Advertising – John Kenney
Book cover of

This book was a surprise – mostly because I bought it thinking it is actually a non-fiction book about, well, advertising. Maybe reading the header “Winner of the Thurber Prize for Humour” would have been a hint? Surely, but I didn’t read that. Neither did I read the blurb so when I started reading, I laughed out loud. The book was also a surprise because it is funny, heartbreaking, uplifting, hopeless but realistic. It tells the story of Finbar Dolan, an almost 40-year-old man living in New York and working in an advertising agency. His current job is to create a creative, groundbreaking commercial for diapers. We follow him facing ghosts from the past and also the future and see him develop, not too much but yet still SO much. I can only recommend that book and it is my favourite book in January 2019.

Which books have you already read this year?

5 places for book lovers – Haarlem

I moved to the Netherlands four and a half years ago and there are still so many cities I haven’t been to. Exploring new places is exciting for me, but I sometimes find it difficult to go to a place if I don’t have something in particular I want to visit there. So, when I started this blog, I thought it might be nice to combine my interest in travelling and exploring new places with finding great places for book lovers. The idea for my city guides was born and I am proud to present you my first edition:

Bookshop exterior in Haarlem, the Netherlands – city guide for book lovers

Haarlem is such a charming town and I think I would also enjoy living there a lot. Cute independent shops, cafes with delicious food and the atmosphere of small town. Grab a cup of tea and join me on my trip to Haarlem.

1. De Vries van Stockum – book shop

This book shop sells new books only – but about every topic possible. The interior of the shop invites you to stay awhile and discover. The shop used to be five different smaller shops but around 100 years ago, they broke down the walls to make it one big shop. While the shop is modern, traces from the past can be found everywhere: The old timber and painting peeling off.
What is special about this book shop is the events they are hosting: They invite you to taste dishes from a recently published cook book or bring people together to form a book club. Just to name a few.

Interior of a Haarlem bookshop hosting book clubs and cookbook events

De Vries Van Stockum, Gedempte Oude Gracht 27, 2011 GK Haarlem
Opening times are:
Monday: 12.00 – 18.00
Tuesday – Saturday: 10.00 – 18.00
Sunday: 12.00 – 17.00
http://www.devriesboeken.nl/

2. De Groene Godin – 2nd hand book shop

The shop signs of this book shop are already special to me and inviting. The shop itself is rather small and offers a wide variety of items: books, board games and small gifts. The bookshop itself is one room which invites you to find hidden treasures of the genres fantasy, SciFi and fairy tales. The second room of the shop is more a living room with a large table surrounded by games. When I visited, a group of people were busy playing a game, so I didn’t take a picture of the room itself.

Every last Friday of the month, you can join other like-minded for a games night. Watch also the event overview for concerts.

Monthly games night at a bookshop in Haarlem, the Netherlands

De Groene Godin, Kleine Houtstraat 84 2011 DR  Haarlem
Opening times: Wednesday – Saturday: 10.30 – 18.00
https://degroenegodin.nl/

3. Antiquariaat Hovingh

This book shop really offers something for everyone – novels, history books, posters and postcards. The interior of the shop is a dream: books and books everywhere you look. There is even a hidden hallway you can discover! Being in the shop does not feel like being in a book shop, it feels more like exploring the huge book collection of a friend and really invites you to stay.

Cosy bookshop interior in Haarlem that feels like a friend's private library

Antiquariaat Hovingh, Kleine Houtstraat 50, 2011 DP Haarlem
Opening times are: Every day, from 11.00
http://hovinghantiquariaat.nl/

4. Teylers Museum – Library

The museum itself is definitely worth a visit: It offers a lot to learn and see for everyone interested in science and also art. However, my personal highlight – and the reason I went to the museum in the first place – is the library.

Historic library in a Haarlem museum – a highlight for book lovers

Walking into this old and huge room was astonishing. You can only visit the library on a guided tour – and it is definitely worth it. Make sure to check with the museum when the tours take place because at the moment I could not find the information on their website. You can, however, make an appointment to visit the library and reading room or make a group reservation for a tour to the library.

Reading room inside a Haarlem library – available by appointment
Library interior in Haarlem – tall shelves and reading tables

Teylers Museum, Spaarne 16, 2011 CH Haarlem
Opening times are:
Tuesday – Friday: 10.00 – 17.00
Saturday + Sunday: 11.00 – 17.00
https://www.teylersmuseum.nl/

5. Sjakie Small – Shop

Wow, this shop has everything – paper, books, lamps, soaps, lunch boxes, candles, and so much more. I somehow believe that book lovers also love stationary and notebooks and Sjakie Small definitely has you covered: They have the most beautiful notebooks which look like a normal hardcover book. Almost everything in the shop is fair trade and you are not allowed to enter the shop if you wear real fur – a great concept to me.

Fair trade bookshop in Haarlem with ethically sourced books
Book display in a fair trade Haarlem bookshop – no real fur allowed
Exterior or window display of a fair trade bookshop in Haarlem

Sjakie Small, Koningstraat 34, 2011TD Haarlem (There are two shops, I only visited the Sjakie Small)
Opening times are:
Tuesday – Friday: 11.00 – 18.00
Saturday: 10.00 – 18.00
Sunday: 13.00 – 17.00
https://www.sjakies.com/contact


I hope you enjoyed the little trip to beautiful Haarlem. Next month, we are going to explore my current hometown The Hague.

J. M. Coetzee – Summertime

I picked up Summertime by J. M. Coetzee almost by accident. It had been sitting on my shelf for a while, quietly waiting, and in January I finally gave it the attention it deserved. I am very glad I did – it turned out to be one of my favourite reads in a long time.

Summertime is the third in Coetzee’s fictionalised autobiographical trilogy, following Boyhood and Youth. But it approaches autobiography in an entirely unexpected way. Instead of telling his own story directly, Coetzee imagines a biographer interviewing people who knew “John Coetzee” – a fictional version of himself – after his death. We hear from former lovers, a cousin, a colleague. Each has a distinct voice, a distinct memory, and a distinct judgement of who John was.

What I found remarkable was how Coetzee uses this structure to explore self-knowledge and its limits. These narrators do not all agree. They remember the same man differently, sometimes unfavourably. There is something both humbling and honest in the idea that we can never fully know how we appear to others – or how we will be remembered.

The writing is clean and precise in that way Coetzee always manages. Not a word wasted. And yet the book has an emotional undertow that catches you off guard. Particularly in the section with Julia – a woman who had an affair with John in the 1970s – there is a strange, bittersweet quality that stayed with me long after I had finished.

It is not an easy book. But it is a rewarding one, and a great first read for a new year.

Who should read it: Readers who like literary fiction, unreliable narrators, and books that make you think about memory and identity. If you have not read Coetzee before, this might not be the best starting point – but if you have, it is wonderful.

★★★★★

Kindness – it starts with yourself

I truly believe that we can all make the world a better place. We can all practice compassion and love. And with this, I don’t only mean for someone else. It has to start with yourself. From my past, I know that it is not always easy to be kind to yourself. We so often focused on the wrong things and measure ourselves and our self-worth by ridiculously high and unrealistic standards. It is a long way to love yourself and accept yourself just the way you are.

Sunlight through leaves – symbolic image of self-compassion and kindness

What has helped me over the course of the years, was showing compassion and kindness to the people around me. It sounds selfish, but making someone else happy and being there for someone else makes me happy, too. It lifts my spirits and spreads joy – when my environment is happy, it is much more likely that I am happy, too. I believe in actions speaking louder than words, but I also think that words have the power to change the world. It does not have to be the whole wide world, if we all started with our small world and the people in it and tried to make this place a better one, we would come a long way.

I know that thinking of acts of kindness is sometimes overwhelming and the internet is full of ideas. For me, some of the ideas are “too big” and they take too long. As mentioned in my post about setting goals, I like to make them as small as possible. The same goes for my little acts of kindness – I want them to be doable and make sure I can perform them, so they cannot be acts like “I want to do one good deed per day for a year”. That is why I thought of 8 acts of kindness we all could do in the next 30 days. I divided them into four categories.
You can find a list of all 8 acts of kindness here.

Acts of kindness to yourself

  • Put your phone to flight mode and read for one hour about something you always wanted to know (more) about.
  • List 5 things you are succeeding at.

Acts of kindness to the environment

  • Take a walk and really take in your environment. Afterwards, list two things that made you happy during the walk.
  • Pick up 5 pieces of trash and put them into the bin.

Acts of kindness to your neighbours/colleagues

  • Make one person a compliment.
  • Ask one person how she is doing and really listen.

Acts of kindness for your family/friends

  • Cook for your friend(s) / partner.
  • Send one person a message and tell her/him why you enjoy their company.
Eucalyptus and a cup of tea surrounded by two postcards with birds and flowers.

I believe that we can all perform these little acts of kindness in the course of the next 30 days and start making our world a better place – one step at a time. You can find a list of all 8 acts of kindness at the bottom of the post, so you can print it and take it with you. If you want, you can share your experience with the #confettiofkindness. That would make me very happy 🙂
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Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine – Review

I first heard about Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman when it seemed like everyone around me was reading it. It was one of those books that kept popping up on Instagram, in conversations, and on every “best of” list I came across. And honestly? I understand why.

Eleanor Oliphant is a deeply peculiar woman. She has a strict routine, very few social skills, and a past she has carefully locked away. She works in a small office in Glasgow, eats the same things every week, and has not had a single friend in years. Reading about her at first felt almost uncomfortable – she is so precise, so rigid, so alone. And yet I could not stop reading.

What Gail Honeyman does brilliantly is reveal Eleanor to us very slowly. We piece her together bit by bit, and as we do, something shifts. The quirks that first seemed cold become heartbreaking. Her routines are armour. Her bluntness is the result of wounds she does not know how to talk about. By the middle of the book I was rooting for her so completely that I had to remind myself she was fictional.

There is also a lovely warmth in this novel that I did not expect. A small act of kindness – a stranger helped in the street – sets off a chain of events that slowly, gently, begins to change Eleanor’s life. It reminded me that we never really know what one moment of human connection can do for a person.

I will not say too much about the ending, except that I cried. Properly cried, sitting on my sofa with a cup of tea that had gone completely cold.

Who should read it: Anyone who has ever felt like they do not quite fit in. Anyone who loves a character study. Anyone who wants to cry in a good way. Basically: everyone.

★★★★★